Komunikasi Harmonis Orang Tua dengan Anak

Anne Ratnasari

Abstract


Harmony in family communication indicates the success of communication and interaction exchange within family members. In this paper, a harmonious communication between parents and their children was reviewed through parents credibility, the use of verbal and non-verbal communication, plus parents ability to listen their children actively. By continuously added their knowledge and information concerning parenting and communication, parents could increase their credibility. Verbal message focused on I-message applying win-win solutions, combined with humor approach, helps to delivered message effectively. Meanwhile, active listening related with parents activities in giving restatement, understanding, and questioning children’s mind and feeling.

Keywords


komunikasi harmonis, keluarga, i-message, menyimak aktif

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DOI: https://doi.org/10.29313/mediator.v8i2.1247

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